Calling myself Dominant

01 Dec

Arcade card

I call myself Dominant because it best describes my sexual orientation, my tastes and my desires in way that is straightforward and unequivocal

It is not because I expect you to fall gratefully to your knees and call me Sir.

It simply does not work like that.



© the author writing as Romantic Dominant

Art from a vintage postcard – origin unknown


Posted by on December 1, 2015 in D/s, Still Life


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28 responses to “Calling myself Dominant

  1. Cara

    December 1, 2015 at 10:30 pm

    So you’re a Dominant, not MY Dominant (unless or until I accept your collar, that is). And that is what separates you from the dumbinants, the ass hats who pretend to be Dominant because it gives them an excuse to bark orders at a woman.

    Liked by 2 people

    • Romantic Dominant

      December 1, 2015 at 10:43 pm

      Sexual submission is a gift, an exchange of power to the mutual satisfaction and pleasure of both parties. Submissive does not mean subordinate. Both remain equal.

      Liked by 5 people

  2. Just_Libby

    December 1, 2015 at 10:31 pm

    I’d fall to my knees for a purpose…
    But I’d much rather be pinned, held down, and or other….things…

    Liked by 1 person

  3. missmirthe

    December 1, 2015 at 10:31 pm

    It explains everything, it explains nothing

    Liked by 1 person

  4. justagirllost2

    December 1, 2015 at 10:56 pm

    Of course not. Any true Dominant would hate a soulless wraith of a timid soul.
    I’m assuming any prize worth winning is not easily won.
    Sex is not everything, though a lovely expression of the heart.
    It’s meant to be a crescendo, I think.
    Lovely words, as always 🍃🌺

    Liked by 2 people

  5. missameliaandsir

    December 2, 2015 at 12:22 am

    Completely agree. I will refer to you as Sir out of respect, not out of submission. There is a distinct difference. You might not be able to read it in my writing, but I guarantee you could hear it in my voice. So thank you for such a lovely reminder to us all, Sir. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  6. redklwr2006 Kym

    December 2, 2015 at 1:25 am

    Simple truths are often the most powerful…

    Liked by 1 person

  7. Leslie Meeks

    December 2, 2015 at 1:29 am

    I respect the man and writer that you are. Calling you Sir is out of respect for me. A lovely and true piece you have written.

    Liked by 1 person

  8. dievca

    December 2, 2015 at 12:12 pm

    Perhaps, if we met over coffee- I would prefer to call you friend. Then if our D/s meshed….if allowed, something different. 😌

    Liked by 1 person

  9. Ember

    December 2, 2015 at 2:43 pm

    Sexual submission that is given freely without hesitation and out of love and longing to a Dom such as yourself. That. Smiles.

    Liked by 1 person

  10. Enigmatic Amor

    December 2, 2015 at 7:45 pm

    A Dominant is dominant whether or not they have someone who chooses to submit. You are what you are. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  11. goldenpunani

    December 2, 2015 at 11:54 pm

    You are a dominant eh ? Is that so ? You mean a dominant at home with a willing obeying puppy ? So that is being a dominant yes, a daddy ? A master ? What a fucking joke. Durong the day and eaxh day tou walk this planet tou re just another guy, a nobody that follow rules and answer orders from your boss little man. You re not brave neither strong or dominating noone but a woman that is willing to be submissive with a clown like you, inventing a second life where you can treat women like slaves and feed your idiotic soul and big ego. Nothing else, just that mister dominant. Come and try dominate someone real, you ll see how life will treat you pretty face.

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    • Romantic Dominant

      December 3, 2015 at 12:17 am

      Always a pleasure to read an alternative viewpoint. Even one expressed so untidily. You clearly have some personal issues of your own or you wouldn’t be wasting time reading something that upsets you so much. I suggest you go somewhere and get your own life instead of concerning yourself so angrily about other people’s. There’s a big wide world out there. Go and find some for yourself. Smiles.

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      • goldenpunani

        December 4, 2015 at 10:16 pm

        Sure Daddy. Absolutely right. I was drunk in fact and had time to waste. Best way to do it was on he pile of shit you call you blog. Have a good evening mr Clown ! you really make any real man out there laugh loud you know ? Bit as long as it works for you and your slave that s all fine, you are right. Excuse me now i have a real woman waiting for me, free and wild : you should reAlly try once if you re not scared of real women of course ?

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        • Romantic Dominant

          December 4, 2015 at 10:29 pm

          Laughing. I am so glad you are back. There is no fun in a blog unless there is a semi literate half wit who regularly appears for pure entertainment value.

          We know why I am here. I write. A thousand times better than you, as it happens.

          But where are your talents, little man? And why are you hanging around this blog if you truly have such an exciting life?

          In truth, I know, and you know, that you are a pathetic, jealous, sad little chap who gets his rocks off by trolling around pretending you are special. But actually – well, if you were that special you wouldn’t be here, now would you?

          I would say go away and enjoy the porn sites – you will have more fun there. They require no intellectual capacity and a strong wrist.

          But you will disappoint me if you don’t return. Because I may not be anything special – but compared to you, sad creature – I am a god.

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