Not even for you

27 Jan


I cannot change the way that I am.

It s not a whim, a fashion, a style.  It is not act, a pose, an affectation. It is not a sham, a fake, a masquerade. It is not some elaborate pretence.

I have not adopted a persona to attract or to seduce.

The word Dominant does not define me. It is simply a way of translating what I have always been into something that can almost be understood.

I cannot alter, modify, change, reshape, or reorient myself.

Not without betraying every thought, desire, belief, sinew and fibre of my being.

This is me.

I can never compromise.

Not even for you.



© the author writing as Romantic Dominant

Photo stolen from grafzahl


Posted by on January 27, 2014 in D/s, Still Life


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41 responses to “Not even for you

  1. Aphrodite

    January 27, 2014 at 10:36 pm

    Love it. To be what one is…well, that is the hardest thing to be. 🙂 And the easiest…when one finally does become that.


  2. Mandy the Quiet (@69quietgirl)

    January 27, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    Wonderful piece of writing, as usual! To accept oneself as one is, to be at peace with that – it’s so important and yet can be so hard to do!


  3. Heartafire

    January 27, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    beautifully written, Mr. D.


  4. Sheila Hall (@TheDarkerFun)

    January 27, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    As is proper. 😉


  5. b.l. ronan

    January 27, 2014 at 10:42 pm

    nor should you. we are a collection of intrices that impart but do not define our whole existence. eloquent as ever and a great picture choice. X


  6. KarinKateriKei

    January 27, 2014 at 10:46 pm

    There are no stronger handcuffs than the ones we place ourselves in the name of trying to please another.


  7. April

    January 27, 2014 at 11:16 pm

    Do not change. It is a comfort to be sure of who we are, even when who we are brings tumult. I am still working on this. I applaud your bravery for being true to yourself.


  8. suzisummer

    January 28, 2014 at 12:31 am

    Thank you Sir…


  9. dievca

    January 28, 2014 at 1:47 am

    A good reminder for me about Master — Thank you, I needed it at this moment.


  10. phatyma

    January 28, 2014 at 5:40 am

    one should never be expected to change by the one he loves….or expect someone you love to change themselves… because that would be loving something he is not


  11. Megan Kay's Blog

    January 28, 2014 at 12:43 pm

    Glad to hear it…


  12. sharronkelley

    January 28, 2014 at 3:11 pm

    I know this truth as well


  13. vishalbheeroo

    January 28, 2014 at 5:22 pm

    Well said, bro:)


  14. KarinKateriKei

    January 28, 2014 at 7:07 pm

    Reblogged this on The Eclectic Poet and commented:
    This piece kept calling me back. The words were resonating, aligning with events in my life the last couple days. The context is very different but the last three lines, well that’s what she said…


  15. redklwr2006

    January 29, 2014 at 1:23 am

    As it should be


  16. lyriquediscorde

    January 29, 2014 at 8:27 pm

    No one is worth changing the core of who you are. I hope you never change.
    Follow your bliss.


  17. janineyork

    January 31, 2014 at 9:42 pm

    And you never should. You are the only you alive, and you are perfectly you!!


  18. hisalone2016

    September 8, 2016 at 10:21 pm

    This really spoke to my heart. Being new in this, it gives me a gentle reminder of who He is. thank You.

    Liked by 1 person


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